Friday, 22 November 2013

Wilder World of Books: A Q & A

Posting regularly here has become a thing of the past. I have all these ideas and big plans for this blog, but then life seems to get in the way. I've been debating taking a break from blogging until I have the focus and time to get this blog to where I want it to be. I'm not sure that that's the answer though. Less blogging will probably just lead to...less blogging. 

I know I'm not the only one in this situation. Over at Sarah-Rose's blog, she mentioned a break in her regular posting due to An Abundance of Life, and used this book survey to fill a posting void. So I'm going to do the same. Because literature is a topic I want to focus on more here. Enjoy. And answer the questions for yourself, because I really want to read your answers.

Author you’ve read the most books from:
Alice Walker & Noel Streatfeild.
Best Sequel Ever:
As if Maurice Gee's The Halfmen of O wasn't brilliant enough already, he hit the jackpot again with The Priests of Ferris
Currently Reading:
Crazy Salad: Some Things About Women & Scribble Scribble: Notes on the Media by Nora Ephron. This is brilliant, but I have put it aside for now to try and get through Eleanor Catton's The Luminaries in time for my book club meeting. This is also brilliant.
Drink of Choice While Reading:
I like the ritual of preparing a good cup of tea before settling in for a reading session.
E-reader or Physical Book:
Physical Book. Though, having said that, I have nothing against e-readers. I just can't afford one at this time.
Fictional Character You Probably Would Have Actually Dated In High School:
Ugh, I have no idea. The first person that comes to mind is The Hunger Games' Peeta. Tough question.
Glad You Gave This Book a Chance:
Another tough question, because I tend to give most books a chance. Perhaps David Copperfield by Charles Dickens. I'm not sure that this is a book I would have sought out had it not been required reading for a course I took. I loved it so much.
Hidden Gem Book:
The Uncommon Reader by Alan Bennett. I won this in my book club's annual Christmas book swap a few years back. It is such a wonderful wee novella. I have recommended it to others who have also thoroughly enjoyed it.
Important Moment in your Reading Life:
The realisation and acceptance that I should never be ashamed of something I'm reading. That everything has value, whether it's a Babysitters' Club book or a Salman Rushdie novel. The important thing is to read.
Just Finished:
Enough by Louise Wallace. I am so lucky to have such talented friends. I read this on the plane to Auckland recently and was again blown away by Louise's skill.
Kinds of Books You Won’t Read:
Nothing. I will give anything a go. Although, having said that, I probably wouldn't go out of my way to read Lee Childs or books of that ilk, nor have I had any desire to read 50 Shades of Grey.
Longest Book You’ve Read:
East of Eden by John Steinbeck, David Copperfield by Charles Dickens. I'll be adding The Luminaries to this list when I'm done.
Major book hangover because of:
The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Society by Mary Ann Shaffer. I did not want this book to end. I cried, and then I spent some time continuing the story in my head.
Number of Bookcases You Own:
Three. I have two huge bookcases that Apa built for me, though these house more than just books. And I have one bookcase that is solely for books I am yet to read.
One Book You Have Read Multiple Times:
The Outsiders by S.E. Hinton, Songs for Alex by Tessa Duder, Tiger Eyes by Judy Blume.
Preferred Place To Read:
I don't really have one. I do like to sit in a cafe with my book on the table in front of me and a drink and snack nearby. And I like to read in the sun.
Quote that inspires you/gives you all the feels from a book you’ve read:
I re-read The Outsiders last night so as to find this specific sentence that has always stuck with me ~ 
His face was white, and when he looked at me his eyes were wide with a pained expression. I suddenly remembered Curly Shepherd's face when he slipped off a telephone pole and broke his arm.
And this, from Dalton Trumbo's Johnny Got His Gun

He could tell them mister there's nothing worth dying for I know because I'm dead. There's no word worth your life. I would rather work in a coal mine deep under the earth and never see sunlight and eat crusts and water and work twenty hours a day. I would rather do that than be dead. I would trade democracy for life. I would trade independence and honor and freedom and decency for life. I will give you all these things and you give me the power to walk and see and hear and breathe the air and taste my food. You take the words. Give me back my life. I'm not asking for a decent life or an honorable life or a free life. I'm beyond that. I'm dead so I'm simply asking for life. To live. To feel. To be something that moves over the ground and isn't dead. I know what death is and all you people who talk about dying for words don't even know what life is.
There's nothing noble about dying. Not even if you die for honor. Not even if you die the greatest hero the world ever saw. Not even if you're so great your name will never be forgotten and who's that great? The most important thing is your life little guys. You're worth nothing dead except for speeches. Don't let them kid you anymore. Pay no attention when they tap you on the shoulder and say come along we've got to fight for liberty or whatever their word is there's always a word. 
Just say mister I'm sorry I got no time to die I'm too busy and then turn and run like hell. If they say coward why don't pay any attention because it's your job to live not to die. If they talk about dying for principles that are bigger than life you say mister you're a liar. Nothing is bigger than life. There's nothing noble in death. What's noble about lying in the ground and rotting? What's noble about never seeing the sunshine again? What's noble about having your legs and arms blown off? What's noble about being an idiot? What's noble about being blind and deaf and dumb? What's noble about being dead? Because when you're dead mister it's all over. It's the end. You're less than a dog less than a rat less than a bee or an ant less than a white maggot crawling around on a dungheap. You're dead mister and you died for nothing.
You're dead mister.
Dead.
Reading Regret:
The Water Babies by Charles Kingsley. Just awful. And Jonathan Livingstone Seagull by Richard Bach. I read this as a teenager and spent most of the book gobsmacked by the fact that it was actually about a seagull.
Series You Started And Need To Finish (all books are out in series):
A Series of Unfortunate Events by Lemony Snicket. Such brilliant wordplay. I laugh out loud reading these books.
Three of your All-Time Favourite Books:
East of Eden by John Steinbeck, Baby No-Eyes by Patricia Grace, The Vintner's Luck by Elizabeth Knox.
Unapologetic Fangirl For:
Noel Streatfeild and Judy Blume.
Very Excited For This Release More Than All The Others:
Eep, I can't think of anything! I'm looking forward to reading Grace Taylor's first collection, Afakasi Speaks.
Worst Bookish Habit:
Folding down the corners of pages instead of using bookmarks, and being generally casual in my care of books. They always look much worse off after I'm done with them, but I figure books are for reading, not for sitting on shelves looking pretty.
Your latest book purchase:
Party Frock, to add to my Noel Streatfeild collection.
ZZZ-snatcher book (last book that kept you up WAY late):
Mr Pip by Lloyd Jones.

Sunday, 17 November 2013

Seven Days of Koko

Rugged up and waiting patiently to leave the house.

The ball pit at Junglerama = Koko's happy place.

Sweet ride.

It look like she's taking a selfie. She's not. She's trying to snatch the camera out of my hands.

Adorable.

Plays hard, sleeps hard.

A very chill tantrum.

Friday, 25 October 2013

Wilder & Tamer

WILDER


~ This delightfully beautiful song and lovely new video from Joe Blossom.

TAMER

~ Dressing completely inappropriately for the weather.

Wednesday, 23 October 2013

Wilder Web


Pin of the week. Love it.

Happy tears over this proposal.

11 Hidden Messages in Company Logos. Number 3 blew my mind. (via Dooce)

"In the end, I’m not sure what’s more offensive—the film’s rampant and unapologetic misogyny or Stewart’s interview with the Chicago Sun-Times, in which she claimed that On the Road told her “that you have to use every second in life. You can’t get complacent and let life pass you by,” as if fathering children and abandoning them is just an essential part of what it means to be free, man."
The reason I love the Mummy-blogs that I do is because they are as honest about their failings as they are about their successes. My Kids Eat Homemade Bread - What's Your Excuse? illustrates this perfectly. (also via Blue Milk)

Linking to this one because it cannot be talked about enough ~ Lani Wendt Young takes on rape culture for her column in the Samoa Observer.

Wellington's South Coast is one of my favourite places in the world. Sundays at Lyall Bay shows what one of our typical visits is like ~ eating Ekim Burgers, watching planes land, chasing dogs, battling wind, jumping waves... it's all bliss.

Jessica Valenti on coming to terms with the reality that she will only have one child
"I know that I don’t hate myself enough to die. And I love her enough not to."

This poem hit me like a sucker punch. So, so good ~



Monday, 21 October 2013

Wilder Wellington

I would love for this blog here to be a reporting of my adventures (and misadventures) as I travel to far flung places. Alas, my piggy bank does not allow for such a jet-setting lifestyle. So I've made a decision; I'm going on a stay-cation. A permanent celebration of all things Wellington. Let's face it, the life I lead here is pretty wonderful, and I get to experience an inordinate amount of awesomeness for very few pennies. So I figure, why not share that with the rest of you? I'm going to make a real effort to push myself to find new and hidden Wellington gems, and to see the beauty in my everyday life here in this windy city.

I've been meaning to get this Wilder Wellington series started for a while now, but it's taken a ridiculously full week of activities ahead to spur me on. So far this coming week I plan to take in gigs at Bodega & Mighty Mighty, an international netball game, No Lights No Lycra, and Diwali celebrations. Phew. Unfortunately my pesky black lung has chosen this awesome week to play up on me, so I may end up spending week one of the stay-cation in bed, dosed up on antibiotics. Eep! That's not so exciting for me or you, but we'll wait and see what happens.

Tune in to find out the results of the Black Lung vs. Gem's Social Life. 

Saturday, 19 October 2013

Wilder Women ~ Sathima Bea Benjamin

Jean Grae is one of my favourite Wilder Women. I've had the pleasure of seeing her live a couple of times, and not only is she a brilliant music maker, but also an incredibly hilarious and engaging performer. If you ever get the chance to see her live I highly recommend you take it. 

But I'm not here to showcase Jean Grae. You see, Jean has just written a beautiful tribute to her mother, who died earlier this year. And at the end of that tribute she linked to this beautiful piece. 


This is stunning and soulful. I recommend you save this for a quiet moment, pour yourself a drink, sit back, close your eyes, and let the music wash over you.

Music like this really is the spirit within you.

Sathima Bea Benjamin ~ a new Wilder Woman to add to the list.

Friday, 18 October 2013

Wilder & Tamer

WILDER



~ When your friend arrives to babysit, which is awesome enough in itself, but then turns up with a loaf of freshly baked bread for you as well. Amazing! Thanks Erin!

~ The resulting Bruschetta that the aforementioned bread became.

~ Unexpected yet absolutely perfect & awesome gifts.

~ Apa's Lasagne. Yum!

~ Watching Koko play really nicely with her cousin or her friends. To see her developing and engaging and learning is so awesome.

~ Raw honesty.

TAMER

~ Waking up in the night with a bad earache.

~ Green phlegm.